random moodswing

I don’t know which is better.

You join a marathon without telling your friends. Your friends say you never ask her (or them) along. You go to the marathon venue yourself, you run alone, you finish the race alone and you head home on your own.

Or.

You join a marathon with your friends. You have work out when and where to meet up. You have your the company of your friends during the run. You finish the race with them and of course, you share the joy of finishing the race with them. And perhaps you could have company on your way home too.

Now we seem to have a bit of issue just to discuss what time to meet.

Just when one suggest,  going for the run is to de-stress myself.

I’m feeling irritated. Especially when mummy isn’t home to receive it tomorrow.

 

【狮子座】 (7月23日 – 8月22日) – 为什么样样都给他说中呢？哎哟！

狮子座的女子实在很有趣，她可以像个小男生一样，陪你上山下海的疯狂玩乐；也可以正经八佰的跟你聊天文地理！当然，她更会像个小公主一样跟你花前月下温柔缠绵。她是那麼的充满著乐趣和变化！只可惜她对你的态度，也是变化多端，难以捉摸。

狮子，不伟大却可以为朋友两肋插刀，不坚强却不会随便外露，重视朋友但又可以十分决绝，他们不耍心机不虚偽不贪图他们一直为自己想要的而奋斗，这就是狮子。

对於狮子座来说世界上最重要的是感情，精神上满足的狮子可以没有任何其他的东西，只要拥有感情就已经是最幸福的了，任何感情对於狮子来说都是最重要的、爱情很重要、但不见得会比亲情重要，在狮子眼中、感情是单纯的、是单独的。狮子可以原谅对方的一切、只要那个人是真心对他好的。

有些任性的狮子，是个自尊心很强的星座，不管是爱还是被爱，都要求是百分百的投入，一丝一毫的分心都是不允许的，虽然过於强调地位权利而处处显得霸气十足，什麼都得他们说了算，但热情大方的他们还又使得他们拥有非常好的人缘，人气自然也是很高，习惯了一心一意的爱，一旦对方的态度易变的冷淡，被在乎的程度也日渐降低，平时活力十足的狮子，这时候也会选择沉默，爱过了，就返回了，不管再怎麼不捨也回不到最初了。

狮子喜欢和自己喜欢的人斗斗嘴，狮子不善表达不爱打电话、对特别的人需要慢慢相处，因为、狮子是个被动的星座、认识时间越久对你越好。狮子座的女生很没安全感、真的超级没有安全感。

狮子座往往有点不可理喻、有点可爱、有点任性、心计不多、闹完了兇完了、不记仇的。狮子心胸宽广、只是别激怒了他、他的霸道往往让你无可奈何，他会用偽装的冷漠和麻木吓退所有的追求者，只有真正懂他的人才可以珍惜他，为了爱、他可以放下所有的骄傲。

狮子座是很有异性缘、很有魅力的星座，但是有时中显得有点大女人和大男人！不太懂得屈服和退让，是指也是很勤奋、很努力、却很容易和别人起冲突。讨厌黑暗和无聊，有果断力、自尊心强，会隐藏不如意的事，但仍表现一付坚强，喜欢被讚美、很少有狮子座是单身，有大男女人主义的倾向。

狮子在恋爱时要懂得把握分寸才不会让自己受伤，不能太过依赖、要知道、有时候给别人退路就是给自己退路。其实狮子座不喜欢纠缠、喜欢好聚好散，狮子座心很好、但是他是有自己的底线的，是性格与脾气都很极端、泪腺发达、很容易被感动，有些悲观、支配欲强、有依赖感。

你没有看到过狮子的眼泪，是因为他从来不会在人面前哭，除非你真的把他们的真心夺走了。和狮子在一起会感到很随和，因为他会包容你的一切。对於狮子真正喜欢的东西，它是会执著的让人害怕的。狮子的人不会放弃世界，却会放弃自己，去成全别人，他们懂得原谅和理解。狮子也是偽装高手、用不在乎和无所谓来掩饰非常在乎，明明拿不起放不下却硬要假装，不擅长表达悲伤，当午夜梦迴时、才拔下假面，独自面对一切。

常常口是心非、想拒绝却开不了口。朋友挺多、但懂狮子的不多。不喜欢主动联繫别人、但绝不是不在乎。不喜欢欠别人、也不喜欢别人欠自己。狮子很能忍、什麼事都藏在心裡不说，除非你善解人意瞭解她。很安静、也可以很疯癲，不要觉得狮子没心没肺、他只是看得很开。

很有异性缘、很有魅力的星座，却也是个死爱面子活受罪；喜欢指挥别人，会拿掌声当氧气的混蛋狮子。

【全部十二星座】:
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邀前女友喝喜酒

题： 邀前女友喝喜酒

者： 吴若权（台北）

联合早报 – 周刊 2012年3月18日第30页

一般的男人被问到 “结婚时， 会不会邀请前女友来喝喜酒？”这个问题时， 态度总是很犹豫。 不只要考虑过去那段 “慧剑斩情丝”的过程处理得好不好， 还要顾虑新娘的感受。就算男人的心里非常坦荡， 而且确定对方不会来闹场，还是难免会担心： 万一老婆生气， 这么办？

对正忙着筹办婚事的昊添而言， 结婚需要得到大家的祝福， 当然也包括前女友的祝福。只要彼此的心中，没有内疚与芥蒂， 就应该可以分享幸福的喜悦。至于老婆那边，很多男人认为未必要让她知道所有的过去，昊添却独排众议，他相信自己娶到的是能够接纳这些情史的贤妻。

讲到这里，就不得不佩服新娘语萱的想法，或者应该说是她的心机。 语萱在和昊添交往之前，早已听闻他的情史非常丰富。在她的观念里， 条件好的男人， 本来就是很多女人枪着要。 重点并不只是他最后被谁抢到，比这个更重要的是， 谁能在抢到他之后， 把他留最久。

结婚，顶多只是阶段的任务，想办法和他相处下半辈子，才是更有挑战性的目标。如果连对方已经成为过去的情史都不能接纳，不只是小鼻子， 小眼睛的器重问题， 而是受限于不肯面对现实的固执愚蠢， 让自己失去更多幸福的机会。

语萱比其他女孩看得远， 看得通， 同意昊添邀请前女友参加婚宴。表面上看起来， 是她很有气度， 可以接纳伴侣的情史；然而深究骨子里， 是她想让一切可能的关系都化暗为明。甚至让那些前女友在见识她于昊添的幸福之后知难而退，不会存在任何一点想要继续纠缠的念头。

关 于处理感情的具体做法，有时候还真的是存乎一心而已，没有什么绝对的遵循标准。很多人都说昊添和语萱处理婚宴的方式， 邀请前女友参加酒席，走的是一步险棋，但是如果双方都认为这是比较有胜算的共识，就可以毫无异议地决定这么做。至少， 以短视近利的眼光来看，多收点礼金总没有错。

而且，说归说，邀归邀， 对方也不一定出席结婚酒宴。倘若礼到人不到，算是这对新人赚到； 万一对方真的落落大方现身， 新人也不必尴尬，何不就勇敢接受祝福，敬杯喜酒让旧情两相忘于江湖。

Tecktonik Dance

This look so absolutely cool!

as taken from wikipedia:

Electro dance or Tecktonik is a frenetic and quirky form of street dance which is typically performed to electro house music. It is based on, although is not limited to, a blend of different dance styles, such as Industrial, Disco, Vogue, Waacking, Hip-Hop and Freehand Glowsticking. It started in the 2000s and originated from the southern suburbs of Paris, France, mainly from the Metropolis nightclubs[1][2] and has grown around the world. Fast-paced techno and electro house music imported from Northern Europe is the usual choice for Tecktonik dancing.[3]

Electro dance is predominantly about arm movement, taking basic elements from glowsticking such as the concept of Freehand, the Figure 8 and the idea of the Leading Hand (one hand geometrically following the other), while staying very much in a disco tastes, by amplifying points and poses as a main aspect to this style. Down below Electro dancers tend to use their hips, knees and feet to gently shuffle across the floor in beat to the music, quite often in a random and jerky fashion. They also tend to include elements of toprock, B-boy-like footwork, lending to the hip hop-like influences in a lot of the electro house music.

The term “Tecktonik” is a registered trademark that began in Paris, and this has created issues for dance events or other uses of the name.[4] The creators of the Tecktonik brand (most notably, Cyril Blanc, the artistic director of Metropolis) sell official products, such as clothes, Matts CDs, and energy drinks.

 

K’Naan – Is Anybody Out There

[Nelly Furtado]
I don’t wanna be left
In this war tonight
Am I alone in this fight?
Is anybody out there?

Don’t wanna be left left in this world behind
Say you’ll run to my side

[K'naan]
Something ’bout mary
Never won a pageant
Never felt pretty
Never looked like cameron
Diaz was her last name
Always been abandoned
Keep your head up

Baby girl this is your anthem
There goes hannah
Showin’ off her banner
Rocking that crown
Make them boys go bananas
When you’re insecure about yourself
It’s a fact
You can point a finger
But there’s three pointing back
I can see her crying out, yeah
Is there anybody out there?

She’s really counting on your love
Still struggling uphill
But you act like you don’t care
Right now she could really use a shoulder
Hanging onto the edge til it’s over
She’s crying for your love tonight
Loneliest heart to survive, she said

[Nelly Furtado]
I don’t wanna be left
In this war tonight
Am I alone in this fight?
Is anybody out there?

Don’t wanna be left left in this world behind
Say you’ll run to my side
Is anybody out there? yeah, yeah, yeah

Is anybody out there?
(somebody, anybody)

[K'naan]
His name was adam
When his mom had him
Dad was a phantom never took a look at him
Grew up mad and antisocial

Hated outdoors, always in playing madden
Adam was lonely
Drugs were the only
Way out of his own life
Now he’s slowly losing his fire
Close to retire
With one last hope he puts his arms up higher
I can see him crying out, yeah
Is anybody out there?

He’s really counting on your love
Still struggling uphill
But you act like you don’t care
Right now he could really use a shoulder
Hanging onto the edge til it’s over
He’s crying for your love tonight
Loneliest heart to survive, he said

[Nelly Furtado]
I don’t wanna be left
In this war tonight
Am I alone in this fight?
Is anybody out there?

Don’t wanna be left left in this world behind
Say you’ll run to my side
Is anybody out there?

[Bridge]
If you feel the way I feel
Like you’ve been talking to yourself
Well this one’s for everyone who’s felt invisible
Lonely in a crowded room
Searching for someone like you
Can’t do it all alone (no one can baby)
Can’t do it all alone (no one should baby)
Is anybody out there?
(somebody, anybody)
Is anybody out there?
I’m right here for your
Is anybody out there?

[Outro]
I don’t wanna be left
In this war tonight
Am I alone in this fight?
Is anybody out there?

Don’t wanna be left left in this world behind
Say you’ll run to my side
Is anybody out there? yeah, yeah, yeah
I don’t wanna do it all alone
I need your love to take me home
No one said you should be all alone
I’m right here
Is anybody out there?

 

[Lyrics: http://www.directlyrics.com/knaan-is-anybody-out-there-lyrics.html]